For your husband, your marriage counselor may be able to speak into that more. It definitely sounds like he would benefit from personal therapy to address the abuse in his past. Perhaps the things to tell him (assuming you haven't already done so) is how his sexual rejection makes you feel, and ask him, if he acknowledges those childhood wounds have long-lasting effects, why he doesn't want to be healed.

Based on research with female porn users, I'd also hazard a guess that you're dealing with some shame from your husband's constant rejection sexually; female porn users also tend to experience a lot of shame from dealing with a “man's problem

For you, why should you avoid porn? If your husband *does* do the healing work and seeks out more intimacy with you, if you're rewired by porn you may not be satisfied by him. In other words, it aging to your marriage in the long run. ” In other words, it's like scratching a mosquito bite with sandpaper; it may solve the itch short-term, but make your own struggles worse. You can learn more about why and how to heal from porn as a female user in the free ebook New Fruit.

Whether or not you actually use pornography, let me remind you: you are so much more than your sexuality. You are a beautiful woman, made in the image of God for so many amazing things, and even now, your Heavenly Father is saying to you, “Arise, my love, and come away with me” (Song of Solomon 2:10).

Question for the author Kristen. Did you actially stop masturbation and looking at porn for long periods of time as a single person?

I ask because I am a single guy who has not looked at porn or masturbated in over two years, and well I applied different verses than you do to over come my addiction. If you want to read my story you can find it at singlevsporn but I dont think addiction recovery is as simply as this article seems to want to make it.

I pitty you. You probably werent addicted to porn you were just horny... Like most people thanks to biology we have sex drive to sustain human race. There is nothing bad about being horny, or watching porn when you are horny.

Trying to stop masturbating or having sex (belive it or not but for your brain they are pretty similar) is like trying to stop eating or breathing. Its a basic biological need that every heatlhy human has. I can't even imagine what it must feel like to being ashamed of your needs.

Alright i don't belive in Jahve or any other god for that matter. I'm not againts it as long as you keep your faith to your self. But when i read this website i pitty everyone who belives this crap you are shamed for being normal human.

I've always had the desire to get married (since I was 12) and unfortunately I have a very strong sexual desire

Now if you talk about filtering porn from children thats another thing but adults? Now i know i can be seen as antichrist (if you saw me in real life you would probably think i came from hell :D) but if you don't belive me read some studies Richmond free hookup website and you will see what i mean.

Hi,I'm almost 38 years old very attractive single mother.I'm a Bible school graduate and I'd love to think about myself as a devoted Christian. Unfortunately,God hasn't send me the right person to get married to (I got married once to a very wrong person).So therefore my very strong sexual desire is a real curse for me. I prayed and prayed for husband as well as for a gift of celibacy (which I believe is a real gift) at times.The only thing I look forward to is in heaven there won't be marriage and in fact we won't have a gender.My biggest salvation from this real torture of life.